Okay so if you have followed along for a while you may know that although I am not a mother myself, I am surrounded by them daily. From my sisters in law, to my own mum and even some of the wonderful women on the Flower Child team.
I wanted to learn more about a mother's needs and the reality of their daily lives so I have poked and prodded to ask the questions and find out what it is all the mums out there truly need. This brings us to where this blog post came to be. Me asking the mums in my life what it is that fills their cup and what little things they do for themselves or wish they carved more time for. I hope you enjoy the read.
Mother’s Day. A day we celebrate the women who hold everything together—the ones who show up, who give endlessly, who love fiercely. But let’s be honest, being a mum isn’t just about the big milestones or picture-perfect moments. It’s about the unseen, everyday work. The small wins, the deep breaths, the days you push through even when you're running on empty. The exhaustion. The love. The push and pull of wanting to be everything for everyone but also just needing a moment to breathe.
So this Mother’s Day, I want to encourage you to gift yourself something too—a little space, a little stillness, a little moment to refill your cup. Here are some ways you can honour yourself, no matter where you are on this journey. And if you’re like me and love a small ritual to make these moments extra special, I’ve paired each with a Flower Child product—something created with the same intention I hope you pour into yourself today.
For the Mum Who Needs to Recharge
If you’re running on fumes, juggling a million things, and can’t remember the last time you truly rested—this one’s for you. Give yourself permission to slow down. Take a bath, sink into warmth, and let the day melt away.
Try this: Run a bath, add a few drops of your favourite essential oil, light a candle, and just be. Before you step in, spritz Lakeside Daydream Fragrance Spray around the bathroom—soft floral notes that make everything feel a little more luxurious. Because even five minutes of peace can shift everything.
For the Mum Who Needs a Reset
Sometimes, we just need a moment to clear our heads and reset the energy in our space. If life feels cluttered—both physically and mentally—start small. Tidy up, open the windows, and create a space that makes you feel good.
Try this: Put on your favourite playlist, fluff the pillows, wipe down the counters, and spritz Wild Meadow Breeze Fragrance Spray on your linens, cushions, and curtains. It’s an instant refresh—like bringing the outside in. And sometimes, that’s all you need to feel lighter.
For the Mum Who Feels Disconnected from Herself
It’s easy to get lost in motherhood—to forget who you are outside of the roles you play. If you’re craving a deeper connection with yourself, try bringing back the things that make you feel like you.
Try this: Set up a small ritual just for yourself—maybe it’s journaling, painting, or simply sitting with a cup of tea in the quiet. Light a Daisy Bloom Wax Melt, let the sweet floral scent fill the room, and take a moment to just be with yourself. No expectations, no to-do lists. Just you.
For the Mum Who Struggles to Rest
Even when we’re exhausted, truly switching off can feel impossible. There’s always something that needs to be done, always someone who needs us. But sleep isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.
Try this: Create a simple bedtime ritual. Turn off your phone, dim the lights, and spritz Woodland Warmth Fragrance Spray onto your pillow. Let the scent be a reminder—it’s okay to rest. You don’t have to do it all tonight.
Motherhood is a beautiful, messy, ever-evolving thing. Some days it fills you up, and some days it drains you completely. But no matter what season you’re in, you deserve care too. Not just on Mother’s Day, but every day.
So here’s to you, for all that you do and all that you are. Take the moment. Light the candle. Run the bath. Gift yourself the same love you so freely give to everyone else.
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